“Nothing will work unless you do”
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I might just tear my head off if one more person asks me about my plans after graduation.
The idea of graduating is scary enough; I doubt I need everyone around me to keep reinforcing that I apparently have no clue what I want to do or how I am going to move forward. For instance, whenever I find myself overthinking about what my next step might be, I start to feel sad and say things like:
Why dont I know what I want to do?
Why isn’t it as easy for me as it is for the rest of my peers?
Why am I not getting the same opportunities as everyone else?
These questions aren’t helping either and usually leads me to thoughts like these plaguing my mind constantly. However, what I have realized is that regardless of the overwhelming questions and the looming idea that is, life after graduation… one thing is sure. I am graduating, and to whatever comes next, I am sure I can handle you…be it the workforce or graduate school or even law school.
So yes, yes I am overwhelmed, and sometimes I might have a couple of panic attacks, but I am also excited and nervous and hopeful for the emotional rollercoaster that 2018 is about to be. So cheers to new milestones and new adventures.
Always,
The Odd Girl
P.S if you have any advice for this odd girl, please leave a comment below and make sure to like this post if you want some more personal writing like this!
I can definitely relate to this. Just last year, I felt so overwhelmed with what would come next after graduating from college. You know yourself best, so tune into your inner voice and everything will work out!
-Carine
http://www.rinnyandbean.com
Thank you Carine. Ill keep your advice in mind.
So important to have a positive attitude no matter what! There’ll always be bumps but you can overcome them!
Wishing you the best of luck as you finish school!! It sounds like you are hardworking and motivated- the right doors will open for you!
xoxo A
http://www.southernbelleintraining.com
Thank you Annaliese/. I hope so!
Ahh I’m graduating this year too!! (: and girl You will figure it out! You are already doing amazing things, life is only going to go up from here sis! The worse thng you can do is start comparing yourself, so remove those negative thoughts and lets end our last few months of college with a bang! <3
Nikki O.
herdaringthoughts.blogspot.com
Yes!! I cant wait till we graduate mahn! The next step is coming!
It’s totally normal to still be figuring out what you want to do! It took me years post-grad to figure it out. Once you do, it’s the best feeling. Take your time. There is no rush.
xo,
Joi
http://joi-knows-how.com
Omg I hope so. Seems like I wont figure anything out, I truly hope I do.
I totally feel you – I was at this stage right about this time my senior year of college. I was so overwhelmed that I couldn’t breathe sometimes. So I just made the decision to not think about it and pray every time I got freaked out. That was probably the most I ever prayed in a single period, but it helped me a lot. Take a bubble bath and take a nap! That always helps. <3
You will figure it out st some point
You are so right- this and any huge life step really is a roller coaster of emotions! You’ll figure everything out. Enjoy the excitement 🙂
Well first off congrats on graduating!!! I’m actually in the process of trying to buy my 1st time and i’m so overwhelmed. So many areas I want to live but would prefer it to be convienent for both the wife and myself. It’s scary but I know we’ll get it done. good article.
Congrats and Thank you!!!
Love the marble planner!
giiirrrlll!! i feel you. don’t even stress about all that. it might be overwhelming now but trust me it beats doing something you have 0 passion for. My advice is take your time but also be practical about it. and one of my fave quotes by Rumi is "what you seek is seeking you"
all the best xx
Oh I feel you! But it’s a great time of your life too! Enjoy 😉
Girl, I think I’ll rip that persons head off if they ask me about my plans after graduation haha!
Haha! That’s exactly how I feel!!
My advice is stay in school!! Don’t leave, being an adult is a pain haha. Try things out until you find out what you want to do.
OMG THIS IS THE EXACT SAME SENTIMENT I’M FEELING THE SAME! omg i really hate that… whenever someone asks me that my immediate reaction is — i don’t want to talk about it lol i’ll tell you when i’m ready!
IKR! Feels like I will rip someones head out soon haha so many questions!
Your smile is amazing, can’t get enough ♥️♥️♥️
Girl, a year had passed since I graduated and I still don’t know what to do. It can be a real struggle and very upsetting. I’m constantly telling myself to go with the flow. You know… don’t overthink just keep going and things will happen eventually. Obviously not many go through the same so they don’t understand. Try to avoid those questions or have prepared an answer. That has helped me to.
Those boots are gorge! I’m sure this is such an overwhelming time for you; definitely hoping you find some clarity and are able to carve out your own path!
Ugh girl I feel you!! I’m graduating this semester and I’m SO NERVOUS because I have no idea what I’m going to do
I completely understand. I was so lost when I was trying to figure out what I was going to do, and I ended up working a few months at a summer camp in an attempt to buy me some time. Just excite yourself in the fact that you’re graduating, and let the cards fall where they may 🙂
I had such a hard time with college graduation and had NOTHING lined up after that summer. Here’s the thing though: everything will work out. It’s the only option. Easier said in hindsight, but try not to get too stressed about it!