“Everyone has that moment I think, the moment when something so momentous happens that it rips your very being into small pieces. And then you have to stop. For a long time, you gather your pieces. And it takes such a very long time, not to fit them back together, but to assemble them in […]

Blogging Tools, Lifestyle

My Blogging Journey- A Fresh Start

“Each of us has an inner thermostat setting that determines how much love, success, and creativity we allow ourselves to enjoy. When we exceed our inner thermostat setting, we will often do something to sabotage ourselves, causing us to drop back into the old, familiar zone where we feel secure”— Katie- The Resilient Blog I […]

Dear Diary

Destroying Me Before I’ve Even Begun- A recovering Self Sabotage(r)

“Love must be learned, and learned again and again; there is no end to it”— Katherine Anne Porter Pants- @asos_us I have a real odd relationship with love, I think I have always had one. Some might argue its because I never saw my parents in love. Others would argue, I run away from my […]

Dear Diary

Learning How To Love

Photo by Pablo Hey You! I am guessing you’re here either cause you love my page wink wink and love to show support and/or you’re new here and looking to start your blog, WELCOME to the family! It has been a while since I shared some OddTips- as I like to call them on the […]

Blogging Tools

Blogs to Read Before Starting Your Own Blog | #ThatOddBloggerTips

“Motivation gets you going and habit gets you there”— Zig Ziglar Photography by- @praya1 I think the most popular question I always get always has something to do with how I can possibly do it all and still have a life. But, before we get into that I want to clear something up first- the […]

Dear Diary

How to Set Achievable Goals for the New Year

“He that beats the drums for the mad man to dance is no better than the mad man himself”— African Proverb My heart and I This isn’t a curated post… far from it. These are my honest feelings, emotions, thoughts and experiences from my trip home. These images are from intimate moments with friends and […]

Dear Diary

Things Haven’t Changed | Visiting Nigeria

“With an education, you have everything you need to rise above all the noise and fulfill every last one of your dreams”— Michelle Obama GRAD SCHOOL BOSS’ING I am writing this post knee deep in preparation for group project presentations and final papers and I couldn’t be more at ease. Its finally here- ‘Tis the […]


First Semester of Grad School | Lessons Learned, Survival Tips and more

“It’s so lonely when you don’t know yourself”— Sofi Photo by Anthony Tran on Unsplash I’ll start by being brutally honest. I did not want to write this post. In some way, I thought sharing what I have been going through would glamorize it in a way that would deceive me into thinking I was […]

Dear Diary

Lets have a conversation about Loneliness

“Don’t stress, do your best and forget the rest”— Anonymous Photo by Kinga Cichewicz on Unsplash Okay, I am going to start this off by being very clear- I HATED THE GRE! Like I know and get that HATE is a really strong word but my days, I HATED that exam. Cool? Okay! with that […]


Why I took the GRE TWICE | Test Prep and more.

“To go back to tradition is the first step forward ” — African Proverb Photography by- Pablo Lord! It has been a minute since I wrote a fashion post and honestly I missed writing about some of my outfit choices. This post is pretty special to me because I wore this dress for my college […]